Failure and things of this sort - you can take it one of two ways. You can either let that hurt you and really affect the way that you live your life in the future, or you can use that as an opportunity for growth.
Some people, however long their experience or strong their intellect, are temperamentally incapable of reaching firm decisions.
The New England conscience does not stop you from doing what you shouldn't-it just stops you from enjoying it.

