If a man works like a horse for his money, there are a lot of girls anxious to take him down the bridal path.
There's a really classic cliche every time you switch the TV on - you see cops arguing. I have spent a day a week for many years in the presence of police and I have never seen them argue. It's a military hierarchy. They do what they're told. There's no bickering.
I think if two people love each other, they should be able to get married. That's pretty much simple.