We must develop and maintain the capacity to forgive. He who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love. There is some good in the worst of us and some evil in the best of us. When we discover this, we are less prone to hate our enemies.
I've never looked at a suburban building as being a minor building and an urban building as being a major building.
If the money we donate helps one child or can ease the pain of one parent, those funds are well spent.