Well, first of all, I grew up in New York City, going to first a public school, then a private school, and when I got to the private school in Manhattan, I learned of what we called 'The Promised Land,' which are the Hamptons. I've always had an affinity for the Hamptons.
If there is any one secret of success, it lies in the ability to get the other person's point of view and see things from that person's angle as well as from your own.

