If you want your kids to listen to you, don't yell at them. Whisper. Make them lean in. My kids taught me that. And I do it with adults now.
“I look for these qualities and characteristics in people. Honesty is number one, respect, and absolutely the third would have to be loyalty.”
“I learned in the early part of my career that labor must bear the cross for others' sins, must be the vicarious sufferer for the wrongs that others do.”