Women have a way of contorting things sometimes. We all have our moods, ups and downs.
I come from a family of working women, my mum went to work two weeks after I was born - my parents had no money, there was no choice.
You could argue that if the average golfer plays a golf course with 430-yard par 4s and they always miss the green, that's good practice. It's definitely great practice to play a course that's too long for you.