Chess only appeals to quite a small minority. It does not have the cachet of a mainstream popular sport.
Not my power, but the power of the position, a power which could be used to help.
When I feel like I'm not doing what I am supposed to as a mother, I will torture myself. I don't know how to deal with it. I find some consolation in the fact that all mommies feel it. If there was a way to cure mommy guilt, I would bottle it and be a bazillionaire.