I have learned that only two things are necessary to keep one's wife happy. First, let her think she's having her own way. And second, let her have it.
I returned to upstate NY where I just laid in bed for days with a fever that just wouldn't go away. After more of this, I grew increasingly sure that this was not simply the flu!
Try to realize it's all within yourself no one else can make you change, and to see you're only very small and life flows on within you and without you.

