Like a plant that starts up in showers and sunshine and does not know which has best helped it to grow, it is difficult to say whether the hard things or the pleasant things did me the most good.
We asked Jane Fonda if she would like to meet American pilots in Hanoi, but she refused, she didn't want to.
I think it's unfair, but they have the right as fallible, screwed-up humans to be unfair; that's the human condition.

