When adversity strikes, that's when you have to be the most calm. Take a step back, stay strong, stay grounded and press on.
Religious institutions should have religious freedom on this issue. No church or minister should ever have to conduct a marriage that is inconsistent with their religious beliefs. But I think as a civil institution, this issue's time has come and we need to move forward.
The fellow who says he'll meet you halfway usually thinks he's standing on the dividing line.