I think there's something very lovely and hilarious about exploring the particular neuroses of the female mind. It's just not the same thing with men. I mean, there are exceptions, but for the most part, women beat themselves up in their heads more. They overanalyze stuff far more than men do.
My theory is that if you look confident you can pull off anything - even if you have no clue what you're doing.
Loss of hope rather than loss of life is what decides the issues of war. But helplessness induces hopelessness.