A man's illness is his private territory and, no matter how much he loves you and how close you are, you stay an outsider. You are healthy.
I've never had a chance to go to the Finals, and I don't have a ring - and that would be the only thing that would get me to think about it.
When music fails to agree to the ear, to soothe the ear and the heart and the senses, then it has missed the point.