Women can really be who they are. I'm about to say the F word, feminist. Often that word has such a negative connotation.
I now want to be playing parts more interesting to me and more exciting to me.
It is only the Somalis themselves - and I don't hide that fact when I meet the political leaders here - they themselves have to stop their old practices of fighting each other every time they have a problem. They have to learn how to do peaceful conflict resolution.