I find that once you start helping others, it makes you feel better about yourself. It helps you figure out what you want to do with your own life.
It sounds like something from a Woody Guthrie song, but it's true; I was raised in a freight car.
I don't take relationships too seriously, but everyone else seems to. And when you get your heart broken, it's like the end of the world. And I look at it as that was one moment in your life, one chapter. That person helped you grow and figure out what kind of person you want to be with in the futur