I love the sun but don't have the time to get a good tan and keep it year-round, so I am a huge fan of tanning products.
I don't think there's anything more important than making peace before it's too late. And it almost always falls to the child to try to move toward the parent.
There is a thin line between peace of the brave and peace of the hostage... between compromise - even calculated risk - and irresponsibility and capitulation.