I haven't played a lot of wallflowers but I have played women who have been vulnerable.
I went to a lot of different high schools. I had quite a sporadic schooling experience. I went to school in England briefly, to boarding school, and I went to a few different ones in Australia as well. I'm really lucky! I have friends in most countries.
Showing up every day isn't enough. There are a lot of guys who show up every day who shouldn't have showed up at all.