I've always been the guy who doesn't necessarily get it with women. A woman would have to say, 'I like you, I want to go out with you, you can ask me.' And still I would question it. Did she mean it?
It's become more and more of a priority for me to tread as lightly as possible in the world.
The key is to keep company only with people who uplift you, whose presence calls forth your best.