“When you challenge other people's ideas of who or how you should be, they may try to diminish and disgrace you. It can happen in small ways in hidden places, or in big ways on a world stage. You can spend a lifetime resenting the tests, angry about the slights and the injustices. Or, you can rise ab”

“Men become much more attractive when they start looking older. But it doesn't do much for women, though we do have an advantage: make-up.”