When I got to 40 or so... I had the sense when I looked back over my life I would actually see a mess of decisions, a few of which I had thought about, some of which I had sort of stumbled on, and many that I had no control over whatsoever.
I've never been monogamous. It might happen, but it never has yet. I don't understand women, I'm off that kick.
If the law is a bad law, there is always the contingent right to take action that you would not otherwise take.

