I think it's really important to find out why people hurt you or try to oppose you or whatever.
“I fell in love with many women at school who had no idea I existed. I'm a bit of a romantic.”
“Well, I think every now and again, some people deserve to get their butts chewed. Every now and again some people deserve a pat on the back. What I try and do is compliment folk who deserve a compliment, and chew folks out who deserve to be chewed out.”