If I had to choose between the band or the friendships, I'd choose the friendships at this point.
The users are not going to be in the position of accepting what's been collected; they're going to be in the position of being able to demand collection.
Strong efforts have been made in Ohio to curb the authoritarianism of our Secretary of State, Kenneth Blackwell, as he has purged people from lists in our State in particular precincts where voters are heavily minority.