If I had to choose between the band or the friendships, I'd choose the friendships at this point.
You are beginning to see that any man to whom you can do favor is your friend, and that you can do a favor to almost anyone.
If modernist naturalism were true, there would be no objective truth outside of science. In that case right and wrong would be a matter of cultural preference, or political power, and the power already available to modernists ideologies would be overwhelming.

