I was in a band in the '90s called Bikini Kill, and we were so freaked out about documentation then, and there was the whole thing, not just about the male gaze, but that people were going to misrepresent you... a kind fear of the mainstream that a lot of us had.
A man who pretends to understand women is bad manners. For him to really to understand them is bad morals.
What I keep searching for in movies, more and more, is the right gravity.

