I was in a band in the '90s called Bikini Kill, and we were so freaked out about documentation then, and there was the whole thing, not just about the male gaze, but that people were going to misrepresent you... a kind fear of the mainstream that a lot of us had.
“It is with flowers as with moral qualities; the bright are sometimes poisonous; but, I believe, never the sweet.”
“I think I'm probably much better at the boots and pocket knife thing than I am at the high heels and martini thing.”