When I was a child I asked my mother what homosexuality was about and she said - and this was 100 years ago in Germany and she was very open-minded - 'It's like hair color. It's nothing. Some people are blond and some people have dark hair. It's not a subject.' This was a very healthy attitude.
For things to have value in man's world, they are given the role of commodities. Among man's oldest and most constant commodity is woman.
If you find someone who agrees with you 80 percent of the time that is your friend not your enemy.