There is no definitive guidebook on how to pick the right partner, and even if there were, I'm way too dumb to write it.
Once you are successful, there's a very seductive rhythm at work that keeps you wanting to outdo yourself. By the end of 'Spirit' I felt like I didn't want to get into that trap. It almost makes you cartoon-like.
You must have been warned against letting the golden hours slip by; but some of them are golden only because we let them slip by.

