There is no definitive guidebook on how to pick the right partner, and even if there were, I'm way too dumb to write it.
“I always sang in church always was in a gospel choir and directed choirs and always performed, but I never thought of it as a powerful thing.”
“Our own theological Church, as we know, has scorned and vilified the body till it has seemed almost a reproach and a shame to have one, yet at the same time has credited it with power to drag the soul to perdition.”