There is no definitive guidebook on how to pick the right partner, and even if there were, I'm way too dumb to write it.
Language, philosophy, and science are interwoven into the design of words, which are manipulated to create surprising illusions.
The Bible contains six admonishments to homosexuals and 362 admonishments to heterosexuals. That doesn't mean that God doesn't love heterosexuals. It's just that they need more supervision.