I'm not a guy who curses very much in my personal life. When I curse it sounds like a kid trying to be cool. But I think there are quite a few people, my father being one of them, who use curse words rather eloquently.
It's really hard to see yourself and to recognize that you are a human being like everybody else. You just think everybody's judging you.
I'm not trying to pull the rug out from under anybody, but the music really does tell you where to go.