I kind of came to the conclusion after I did finally get married that love and relationships are just a series of horrific losses with hopefully one win.
Education: the inculcation of the incomprehensible into the indifferent by the incompetent.
That ability to take in your surroundings and sort out the important stuff, to be aware, to be vigilant. Then take all that information, put it together, and see if it makes sense to you.

