When you make the sacrifice in marriage, you're sacrificing not to each other but to unity in a relationship.
There is only one way to happiness and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will.
I think a gentleman is someone who holds the comfort of other people above their own. The instinct to do that is inside every good man, I believe. The rules about opening doors and buying dinner and all of that other 'gentleman' stuff is a chess game, especially these days.

