It is by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. Where you stumble, there lies your treasure.
At work, you want to stand out but not in extra-funky ways. At the core, it's about dressing for girls - who are most of my fans - and you want to dress up for them. You just want to feel like you're on top of your game.
Eventually I figured out there was something systematic in the way women are treated.