I like kids but I also like the option to close the door. Becoming a parent is a whole other life, and it doesn't stop.
We need society, and we need solitude also, as we need summer and winter, day and night, exercise and rest.
Nashville has a formula, and it works a lot of the time, but it wasn't right for me. They're afraid to step outside the box - even though, with me, my success came because I was outside of the box to begin with.