I just wanted to say one more thing: I also think that when you go to play music, you're there to play music.
Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future.
But, I would say when I was four years old and I was at the Alan King Tennis Tournament and I was hitting with all the pros that would come to town. They would get me on the court or take notice and that stayed with me.