You know these love letters mix with whisky, just don't light a match when you kiss me.
I've gotten away with a lot in my life. The older you get the more you realize you're not getting away with it, it's taking its toll somewhere. So you try not to put yourself in those situations. Part of the mysterious process called growing up. Some people do that better than others.
You can never lose anything that really belongs to you, and you can't keep that which belongs to someone else.