The ideal, it seems to me, is to show things happening and allow the reader to decide what they mean.
However well organized the foundations of life may be, life must always be full of risks.
I know in my own marriage I stayed in it to provide my son with what I thought was a stable background and to give him what I thought was the family life a child should have with two parents. But that isn't always the best way, and it took me taking my son to therapy after the divorce to really see

