My own suspicion is that the universe is not only queerer than we suppose, but queerer than we can suppose.
I think that can happen, that two people can love each other and not be able to get on at all.
People say that New Yorkers aren't friendly, but I think they're more friendly than Londoners. Here there is a front-footed nature of Americans. You can go out on a night out and meet 10 random people and stay in touch with them, whereas that's not going to happen in the same way in London.