I must study politics and war that my sons may have liberty to study mathematics and philosophy.
As an actor, you're pretty much a hired gun. You are reading other people's words off of a page and doing what they want you to do.
You've just got to have a sense of respect for the person you have children with. Anger doesn't help anybody. Ultimately you have to say forgiveness is important, and honoring what you had together is important. But it's easy to say and harder to do.