I remember stealing some pic n' mix when I was seven; when I got out of the shop, I burst into tears.
The things that have always been important: to be a good man, to try to live my life the way God would have me, to turn it over to Him that His will might be worked in my life, to do my work without looking back, to give it all I've got, and to take pride in my work as an honest performer.
The toddler must say no in order to find out who she is. The adolescent says no to assert who she is not.