Oftentimes what happens is that the writer understands one character, but they don't understand the other one, and the other one ends up not being written as well.
“The injunction that we should love our neighbors as ourselves means to us equally that we should love ourselves as we love our neighbors.”
“If you have more money than you need, you have to give it away. It's a duty. I get to choose whom to sponsor, and I like to give to the areas that I know something about.”