By annihilating somebody else in whatever way, then that person feels that they also have the ability to, then, restore the person.
“My son is 7 years old. I am 54. It has taken me a great many years to reach that age. I am more respected in the community, I am stronger, I am more intelligent and I think I am better than he is. I don't want to be a pal, I want to be a father.”