Just because an individual in his 30s hasn't found true love and, yes, there are opportunities to date but it also forces you to be more particular. In so many ways, you become more adamant about finding that right person and not allowing yourself to open up to just anybody.
Never, never rest contented with any circle of ideas, but always be certain that a wider one is still possible.
I don't think violence on film breeds violence in life. Violence in life breeds violence in films.