I didn't write this song. Someone was talking in a room. I just wrote down everything they said.
We are not permitted to choose the frame of our destiny. But what we put into it is ours.
The whole point of diaries is that other people find them and read what you've put. I did once take to writing my inner thoughts on the computer at the end of other things I was writing and ended up faxing four pages of hideous stuff to my accountant so I don't do that now.