I played a ton of team sports growing up, and team wins are just incredibly gratifying.
Experienced happiness refers to your feelings, to how happy you are as you live your life. In contrast, the satisfaction of the remembering self refers to your feelings when you think about your life.
When I was very young, I used to share much of what I wrote with my family, but as I got older and more self-conscious, it became a much more private process.

