I had a friend, Melissa, who was 28 years old. She was my best friend's wife, and she was my wife's best friend. She died of breast cancer. When she passed away back in 2004 was the last time I cried.
Our American friends offer us money, arms, and advice. We take the money, we take the arms, and we decline the advice.
What comprises good performance? The ability through singing or playing to make the ear conscious of the true content and affect of a composition.

