I also think a Hot Mom is someone who can connect with what's current in her kids' world.
Being divorced is like being hit by a Mack truck. If you live through it, you start looking very carefully to the right and to the left.
Consular offices make no attempt to determine whether the person obtaining the card is legally in the United States. In fact, the only people who need these cards are illegal immigrants, criminals and terrorists. Consular cards also are easily forged.