I don't get a whole lot out of the romance thing, but I realize girls do. So I'll go out of my way to make them feel romanced.
'Mad Men' was really my first television role, and it never feels like TV to me. It's done at such a high level.
The only advice I can give to aspiring writers is don't do it unless you're willing to give your whole life to it. Red wine and garlic also helps.