I'm an actor... I do a job and I go home. Why are you interested in me? You don't ask a truck driver about his job.
Crime shows are really popular, in general, but usually, at the end of every episode, you have to let go of the people that you've invested in and then, the next week, get somebody else.
I have crushes on women all the time. I don't have intimate relationships with them, but I find women beautiful.