The great universal family of men is a utopia worthy of the most mediocre logic.
I work out the other bits, too, but I need to know what I look like, very early on. And then it's like a template; I'll fill that person out. If I get that out of the way, then I'm all right.
In Hollywood people lie to each other and cheat each other and then go and play tennis. But I don't want to be a tennis player.