In love, one should simplify, choose persons worthy of their promises and leave them if they don't keep them.
“But this emphasis would be lavished in vain, if it served, in your opinion, only to abstract a general type from phenomena whose particularity in our work would remain the essential thing for you, and whose original arrangement could be broken up only artificially.”
“The man who gives me employment, which I must have or suffer, that man is my master, let me call him what I will.”