We women must listen to our inner voice. It is easier for women to do this as they are not afraid to say what they feel.
The details are the very source of expression in architecture. But we are caught in a vice between art and the bottom line.
I think maybe when you live with someone who is really very ill for a long time, it somehow gives you more of a greedy appetite for life and maybe, yes, you are less measured in your behaviour than you would otherwise be.

