My position is that since the non-secular status of my garden is not recognised by the law; by the world of the public, then the garden can only be private. So, I closed the garden to the public.
There is no definitive guidebook on how to pick the right partner, and even if there were, I'm way too dumb to write it.
To live life well is to express life poorly; if one expresses life too well, one is living it no longer.