Commend a fool for his wit, or a rogue for his honesty and he will receive you into his favor.
Look at every path closely and deliberately, then ask ourselves this crucial question: Does this path have a heart? If it does, then the path is good. If it doesn't, it is of no use.
One must learn to love, and go through a good deal of suffering to get to it... and the journey is always towards the other soul.