You become very angry and depressed that you keep getting offered only these exceedingly demure and repressed roles. They're so not me. That's why films like Fight Club were so important to me because I think I confounded certain stereotypes and limited perceptions of what I could do as an actress.
Most men have an insecurity of some sort. But we're brought up to believe that we can't show them.
Sex without love is a meaningless experience, but as far as meaningless experiences go its pretty damn good.